You want to feel confident and secure in love...
But your mind still goes haywire when someone doesn’t text you back.
Or you shut down the moment things start to get real.
You’re tired of wondering if you said the wrong thing.
Tired of replaying conversations, checking your phone, and trying to decode mixed signals.
Tired of chasing men who won’t commit, don’t choose you back, or only want something casual.
Tired of asking yourself...
Why does this keep happening?
What am I doing wrong?
You’ve done the journaling. The therapy. The podcasts.
But the pattern still plays out... and it’s exhausting.
Hear me out...
You’re not broken.
You’re just running old patterns that were wired into your nervous system when love didn’t feel safe.
✨ The good news? You can rewire them.
And that’s exactly what we’ll do together.
Introducing...
Secure Love Initiation
A 7-week hybrid experience combining daily subconscious reprogramming with weekly group coaching calls
It's designed to help you heal the real root of your anxious or avoidant patterns and feel secure in love.
You’ll be guided through a powerful attachment-healing meditation (used by psychologists and backed by research) that literally “goes back in time” to give your nervous system the experience of love, safety, and support it never got.
And you’ll also receive my coaching...so we don’t just rewire your inner world, but help you take new, empowered action in your love life, too.
We start Monday March 6th
This is for the woman who’s ready to...
✨ Attract love that feels stable, mutual, and safe
✨ Stop settling or chasing the ones who don’t choose you back
✨ Start showing up as the woman who knows she’s worthy of being chosen
✨ Heal old wounds that whisper “you’re too much” or “not good enough”
This is for you if you're ready to step into he version of you that has the love and life she desires.
Only 21 spots available. Doors will close once we are full
Words from my client...
“My coaching journey with Gina has been amazing. It allowed me to finally end the relationship with my ex, and release some deep fears I had about partnership. Now I'm flirting and see interesting men everywhere I go! I have new standards, and I've never been more confident in myself. I know the type of partner and relationship I truly desire and I'm on my way to manifesting it!”
~ Mathilde
“It’s hard to express just how powerful working with Gina was. With her guidance, I’ve been able to rewire negative patterns. I feel empowered to live from the energy of love within me, rather than constantly seeking it from the outside. This is one of the most healing modalities I’ve come across. I highly recommend it to anyone who wants to not just survive, but truly thrive in life”.
~ Monica
Why this works...
This isn’t mindset work. This is nervous system and subconscious reprogramming.
Most of your attachment wounds were formed pre-verbally... which is why talk therapy and thinking alone can’t shift them.
This protocol works because...
✨ It’s clinically proven
✨ It creates a new felt experience in the body - not just a new thought
✨ It’s repetitive, which is what rewires your patterns at the root
And the group coaching gives you my personal support, real-time reflection, and the energetic transmission that creates lasting transformation.
What’s included...
WEEKS 1-3: Rewire Your Attachment at the Root
You’ll be guided through a powerful attachment-healing meditation, based on the Ideal Parent Figure Protocol... a psychologist-developed method clinically proven to shift insecure attachment.
These daily 15–20 minute audios create a new felt sense of love and safety in your body, helping your nervous system unlearn the old patterns that formed when love didn’t feel safe.
No need to “figure it all out”! Just press play and follow along as your system gently starts to rewire itself for secure love.
WEEKS 4–7: Upgrade the Core Beliefs That Keep You Stuck
Now that your nervous system feels safer in love, we’ll go deeper.
You’ll be guided through a daily belief-reprogramming process to shift the core wounds that most often drive anxious or avoidant behaviors - like “I’m not good enough,” “I’ll be abandoned,” or “I am unloved.”
You’ll rewire them with new beliefs that feel powerful, grounded, and true.
This is the phase where your real-life patterns start to shift — you stop chasing, stop shutting down, and begin to show up differently in love.
Live Coaching, Real Connection, and Ongoing Support
This isn’t just a self-paced course. You’ll be deeply held throughout the journey.
✅ You’ll each receive a private 1:1 session with me (valued at $279 AUD) so we can work through any sticky patterns, questions, or personal blocks in a safe and supported space.
✅ You’ll be invited to weekly live group coaching calls, where we’ll practice the tools together, unpack real-life relationship dynamics, and you’ll have the chance to be personally coached if you’d like.
(You’re always welcome to simply observe too - no pressure)
✅ We’ll connect in small pods of 2–3 during the live calls, so you can share, reflect, and be witnessed by others on a similar path. (Perfect if you're someone who craves safe connection but finds big groups overwhelming.)
✅ Between calls, you’ll be supported in our private WhatsApp group... a space for celebration, reflection, and gentle accountability.
You’ll be walking this journey alongside other incredible women who are also rewiring their patterns, which means…You’ll be reminded daily that you’re not alone. You’ll be inspired by others’ breakthroughs.
And you’ll begin to heal in connection...which is exactly how secure attachment is built.
"The group aspect was really fun and powerful. Being in a shared process of re-patterning our beliefs, feeling the love and celebration together, was incredibly supportive".
~ Catriona
““The group calls were powerful. Hearing others share their experiences helped me see my own healing more clearly. The community aspect made such a difference in my journey.””
~ Ashley
I Know This Works...Because I Did It Myself
A few years ago, I was just like you.
Stuck in the same painful cycle...chasing after men who wouldn’t commit, feeling not good enough for love, and constantly wondering if I was “too much” and scaring men away.
I’d done years of self-development, therapy, coaching, embodiment practices...and still ended up anxious and spiralling when a guy didn’t text back.
The turning point came when I committed to doing the very same reprogramming process I’ll be guiding you through in Secure Love Initiation.
Shortly after, I entered the most loving, conscious, and secure relationship of my life. A man who fully chose me, committed to me, and made me feel deeply cherished. And no... it wasn’t a fluke. I could feel that I had changed.
I wasn’t trying to prove myself, or anxiously waiting for validation anymore. I felt safe in my own body. Safe in love. Secure for the first time.
This process didn’t just change how I dated. It changed how I related to men, to myself, to life.
Now, I want to show you how to do the same.
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You Get…
✔️ 6 x group coaching calls (valued $1020)
✔️ 1 x 1-1 private coaching session with me (valued $279)
✔️ 3 subconscious reprogramming meditations, based on the scientifically proven Ideal Parent Figure protocol (valued at $350)
✔️ 21 Day Belief Reset Challenge (valued at $333)
✔️ Private Whatsapp group (valued at $149)
TOTAL VALUE: ($2100+)
Limited to 21 spots to keep this container intimate and high-touch.
You pay only…
✨ Early bird price: $888 AUD (This is around $608USD)
✨ Full price: $1111 AUD (This is around $760USD)
(Payment plans available)
Details:
Start date: We start Monday March 9th
Length: 7 weeks (daily audio + weekly calls with the 4th week as Integration Week)
There will be a recording if you can't make it live.
Live calls: Sundays at 9AM London / 10am Paris / 8pm Sydney Live call dates: Weeks 1-3: Sunday 15th March, Sunday 22nd March, Sunday 29th March Week 4: Break over Easter week (no live calls) Week 5-7: Sunday 12th April, Sunday 19th April, Sunday 26th April
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Hi, I’m Gina Toms
Your Guide to Secure Love & Deep Connection
I help women heal attachment wounds, reclaim their sensuality, and attract deeply fulfilling relationships—without endless dating struggles or repeating painful patterns.
As a Certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach, Conscious Dating Coach, and Integrated Attachment Theory Coach, I blend science-backed healing methods with sensual embodiment practices to help women feel secure, magnetic, and deeply connected to love & pleasure.
If you're ready to reprogram old dating patterns, heal from past relationships, and embody your most confident, radiant self...you’re in the right place.
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