You know that moment...
You’ve just met someone, and he seems different.
There’s a spark, and the way he looks at you, the way he sees you...it feels real.
You think, Maybe this is it. You get excited. You let yourself feel hopeful, even if you’re scared. You spend a magical night or weekend together.You get closer. You make love.
And in the softness after, something inside you whispers, What if this time… it’s safe to fall?
And then...Silence. No message. No follow-up.
A day goes by. Then two. Then a week. Your heart sinks.
Oh god. Not again.
You thought he was different. Now you’re questioning yourself.
Did I come on too strong? Should I have played it cooler? Why do I always ruin it?
You spiral. You replay every moment.
Your chest tightens, and all you want is to reach out to him. But deep down, you already know how this ends...
Him pulling away, and you wondering what you did wrong.
Or maybe it’s this...
You keep ending up in situationships.
He’s charming. Affectionate when he wants to be. There’s chemistry. But he never fully commits.
You’re always left in the in-between...waiting for clarity, for consistency, for him to finally choose you.
You try to be the “cool girl.
The one who doesn’t pressure. The one who’s chill, low-maintenance, easy to love.
But inside, you’re exhausted.
Exhausted from second-guessing. Exhausted from wondering why it always feels like you’re too much for the ones you want... and not enough to be fully loved.
You’ve done the work. The journaling, the therapy, the healing podcasts.
And yet… you’re still stuck in the same painful patterns.
Here’s what no one told you...You’re not broken. You just have attachment issues.
You’re running deeply wired patterns...formed to protect you in childhood...that now keep you caught in love that feels uncertain, unbalanced, and unsafe.
But those patterns can be rewired. And when they are...everything changes.
And what if next time… it really is different?
You meet someone...and this time, it unfolds slowly.
You feel grounded. Calm.
You’re not overthinking everything you say. You feel safe in your body around him.
He texts when he says he will.
He follows through.
He makes plans.
He wants to know your world...and brings you into his.
You feel seen. Chosen.
You open up to him...and instead of pulling away, he leans in.
He remembers your favorite song...and plays it when you’re dancing in the kitchen.
He books a surprise weekend away, just because he loves seeing you happy.
He shows up. Not as a performance, but because it’s real.
This is the kind of love that becomes possible when you’re no longer driven by anxiety...when you’ve built secure attachment from within, and you trust your worth.
Attachment Coaching is for the woman who is ready to...
✨ Stop dating men who never fully choose her, the ones who are “not ready” or send mixed signals... and start attracting partners who pursue her with consistency and clarity
✨ Recognize red flags early, so she doesn’t get attached after one intense night or weeks of uncertainty.
✨ Trust herself when something feels off...instead of doubting her gut or going back to the guy who’s already shown he can’t meet her.
✨ Stay grounded even when he pulls away...no more spiraling, chasing, or feeling worthless just because someone didn’t text back.
✨ Love and honour herself exactly as she is...no more self abandonment or trying so hard to earn love from others.
The Transformation...
Each session blends deep coaching, nervous system work, and practical tools for real-world change.
We use Integrated Attachment Theory to gently rewire the beliefs, emotional triggers, and protective strategies that are keeping you stuck...so you can feel calm, clear, and empowered in how you show up in dating, love, and life.
Choose your path:
1 session: $180 • Buy 6 sessions and get one free! • Buy 10 sessions and get 2 free!
Payment plans are available. Reach out and I’ll help you find a plan that works for your budget.
You don’t have to keep repeating this cycle.
There are men who will love you with presence, depth, and devotion.
But first...you have to choose you.
Book a free Connection Call to choose the right path for you
See what's clients have to say...
"It allowed me to finally end the relationship with my ex, release fears, and start flirting again! I've never been more confident."
~ Mathilde
Hi, I’m Gina Toms
Your Guide to Secure Love & Deep Connection
I help women heal attachment wounds, reclaim their sensuality, and attract deeply fulfilling relationships—without endless dating struggles or repeating painful patterns.
As a Certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach, Conscious Dating Coach, and Integrated Attachment Theory Coach, I blend science-backed healing methods with sensual embodiment practices to help women feel secure, magnetic, and deeply connected to love & pleasure.
You can turn on your feminine magnetism… but if your subconscious is still running on fear and lack, you’ll attract partners who mirror your wounds instead of your worth.
That’s why I now guide women through a two-part journey:
• Step One: Clear the filter with deep, transformational attachment healing
• Step Two: Activate the spark with feminine radiance, embodiment, and sensuality
Because when you feel safe within yourself, when you know your worth on a cellular level, you start to attract love that is aligned, reciprocal, and deeply fulfilling.
This work is about so much more than finding a partner.
It’s about becoming the woman you were always meant to be.
